Doing thousands of individual and family readings over the last 10 years helped me clearly see behaviors through which we interact with the world and synergize a remarkable system of road maps revealing our inner natural drives and potential areas where our decisions may be influenced by others.  

When we consciously live according to our true nature, we visit the right places at the right time and co-create synchronistic events. When we unconsciously act from our need to protect ourselves internalized in the earlier years, we form behaviors that compensate for this constant strain. These habitual ways of being become a strong attraction filed that often leads us into unpleasant situations that reflect our fears and create unproductive relationships.

Ancient energy systems recognized our body as an instrument of measuring overall wellbeing while focusing inwardly.  As many generations before us experienced the intensity of life on Earth and the need to stay alive conditioned our ancestors to change their ways of using inner system.  They shifted their focus and began using their energy centers to perceive outwardly as a survival mechanism.

The change from inner knowing of what is right for us to focusing on what others may feel about us, dramatically changed our relationship with the outside world and ourselves.  This collective shift contributed to our inability to focus and trust ourselves for guidance.  Disconnected from a feeling state, we had to make decisions based on what we think. As you might have noticed in your own life, decisions based on reasoning (less evolved intellectual process of figuring things out based on previous personal experiences) often over-ride your natural survival instincts and lead to misfortunes and pain. For a moment think about:

How many times did you know that the project you were getting into was wrong for you, but signed up for it in spite of your knowing?

How many times have you felt uncomfortable about someone, but created a partnership or formed a relationship based on your calculations?

How many times have you known exactly what would happen if…, and continued doing something that did not feel right?

Honoring ourselves for our individuality is the most important and challenging task for most of us. As we enter agreements with people we love, we often lose our true identity and ability to honor our own interests and life purpose. It is time for us to become aware of how our inner environment affects our external life. This awareness will help us to synchronize with the Shift in every area of human life that is taking place right now and start making little changes that will affect your relationships and ability to stay in sync with Earth changes in a very BIG way.

I invite you to spend a few minutes contemplating the questions below. As you are reading these questions, please mark “yes” or “no” for each one of them.

Do you try to convince everyone that they are wrong?

Are you driven by the need to be right?

Are you staying involved in and holding onto relationships, jobs and places that are not good for you?

Are you manufacturing interpretations to avoid telling or facing the truth?

Are you avoiding confrontation or rocking the boat with another person?

Are you experiencing pressure to be able to answer everyone else's questions?

Are you acting in a hurry and thinking that you can free yourself of the pressure by getting things done faster?

Are you depleting your energy by not knowing when "enough is enough”?

Do you feel enslaved and victimized?

Do you feel a need to prove yourself to others?

Do you have a tendency devalue yourself or your services?

Are you being disappointed by your love life or preoccupied with finding love?

Are you feeling doubtful and indecisive about your direction in life?

Are you trying to attract attention?

Are you anxious about the manifestation of your desires?

 

If you answered “yes” to most of these questions, you may benefit from listening to some of my YouTube presentations.

Releasing Emotional Stress http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wz1IMVyPJIY

From Longing to Serenity http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZKSpmZ134c

 Trusting Your Inner Guidance http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6AAjPe8YFw

In these short videos I share some recent downloads about why we do what we do and feel what we feel and reveal some unique strategies for stepping into and sustaining your wellbeing, romantic relationships or financial commitments consciously.

We are all born with natural talents and abilities that meant to be your “ticket” into the collective drama we play. As you become aware of the bigger picture, you eliminate resistance and struggle that in turn minimizes painful experiences and assists you in making decisions without relying on outside authorities.

The shift we are experiencing now is teaching you to value yourself, be available to yourself and provide the best you have to offer to others without damaging yourself. Becoming aware of your perfection is the first step in this process.  How can you do this?

Make a commitment to:

1.            Finding 3 little (or big) things that you really appreciate about yourself every morning (even if it is you always taken for grated) and say it to yourself as you are taking shower or washing your face.

2.            Repeat this process in the evening. If you are completely stuck, open a dictionary and look for the words that describe you or your behaviors. If you become critical and cannot find anything you love and appreciate about yourself, make a commitment to change 1 little thing in a way that you can be Ok with this aspect of yourself and cultivate this new change for at least 3 weeks (21 days)

3.            Share something good about yourself with at least 1 person a day. Learn to appreciate yourself in public and educate others about something they can learn from you or benefit from being around you.

 

Calling your power back and opening yourself to receive all the best that is there for you is the next step in which you embody what you have been learning all your life.

 How do you do this? Commit to:

1.              Calling your attention back to yourself every time you start thinking about something or somebody that makes you sad, worry, angry, frustrated. Notice where you are and what is around you. Doing so at least 3 times a day you will unplug from collective anger, frustration and resentment and save your inner power that is used to fight with or defend yourself from your “inner ghosts” .

2.              Cultivating your voice power. Every time you are in a shower, take a breath and send your sound down through the core of your body. When the sound reaches your sacral area, you will gain and learn to maintain the tone and power that will allow you to be heard.

3.              Being truthful. Breathe evenly (4 counts in, 4 counts out) for a few seconds to synchronize your heart and breath before you speak. Tell your partner what YOU feel and what YOU want. You do not need to explain or prove yourself. All you are doing is sharing your truth. Every time you are able to continue breathing evenly as you are communicating your truth in the MOMENT, you gain your power to co-create your experiences the way you desire to experience them

As you recognize, acknowledge and accept yourself, you will also notice the energetic data collected by your body from encounters with people, organizations, and circumstances in your life. This data was “programmed” into your body to remind you to be extra careful, doubt your ideas, and not act on your inner knowing in fear of having pain or rejection you’ve experienced before.

These limiting believes and over-reactions are not you. They are your learned “defensive” strategies and conditioned responses. If all you know is what other people have said about you, you cannot notice your gifts and huge potentials because you just do not know what to look for. Without knowing and appreciating who you are first, you cannot really fully relate to others.  This inner work is about adding joy to every aspect of your life and allowing yourself to be true to yourself while being truthful with others. It has a potential for a great wisdom and understanding of what is yours versus what is “theirs and let go of attachments that keep your energy supporting 1000s of different demand.

Knowing your gifts and talents, loving yourself without any conditions and shifting your attention into being yourself creates a strong foundation for building a successful relationship while being true to your nature, dreams and values.