Being a little child is easy… You want something and you scream… Immediately everyone pays attention and you get what you want (just because your expression is loud, annoying and invokes pity and worry). Or you smile. You open those big magical child’s eyes and they melt anyone around you. And you get what you want.

Being a little child is simple… When you do not want something, you scream… Immediately everyone pays attention (just because you are loud, irritating and persistent) and they let you be. Or you run away and hide behind the chair and they forget about you.  Or you change the rules of your game if it does not work for you. You make new friends every day. You break up with old ones every day. You love them, you hate them, you forget about them at the end of the preschool day and you are free to make new choices tomorrow.

Being an adult is not that straightforward. You have to fit, you have to perform. You have to know what is right. And you cannot change the rules or use your childhood tools as often as before. You cannot scream, cry, or run all the time. You’d be called irresponsible. You’d be accused of being childish. You have to “be accountable and dependable” for others .So when you feel like a lost child, you hide the truth and you go about your business of being an adult. But the truth of being lost never dies. It settles in and it waits for you to grow up enough so you can look yourself in a eye and be 100% honest about it.

The energy permeating the Earth these days is incredible. We are in a huge cleansing wave that washes away all that is unsustainable in our life structures. Whatever you were hiding inside that had no energy to survive the Shift is showing up and your outside structures that held it in hiding are falling apart. Every hidden dissatisfaction, every repressed desire, every unsatisfied need is being brought to the surface and illuminated by the light of your Soul.

The vibrational quality of this wave is what we call Unconditional Love. The love I am talking about is not an emotional label or a human expression of longing. It is not an action of caring, nurturing or needing to be taken care of. It is not a mental understanding and forgiveness based on previous agreements and contracts with others or yourself. I am talking about pure vibration, electricity, magnetism, gravity… a pure force that could be measured as a wave form. This energy is huge. It is a vitality of a spring flower rushing through the dirt. It is a force of Mother Nature destroying an old forest by fire. It is the Cosmic Mother washing her sloppy kids after millennia of playing in a mud.

This powerful energy awakens those who are unaware of being unaware and makes them wonder. It awakens those who are attentive of what is happening around them and make them active participants in the Shift. It awakens those who are conscious of their role and path and make them practical leaders, teachers, role models. But most importantly, it awakens everyone to every aspect of life they identify with and make us question if this is what is ours.

This vibration of Love acts like Crazy Glue that binds people together. All of a sudden you find yourself falling in love. This loving tenderness moves through your body looking for something similar from the past that it could identify with. The closest experience of what is happening now is similar to being in love with your first grade teacher, wanting to marry your mom, or share your most riches with your friend form the third grade.

This energy of unconditional love and non-judgmental connection cannot be explained on a human level because we do not have any words for it. There is nothing you can label it with. It feels new, re-freshing, and innovative. It feels like you are 15 again and you can change the rules, rebel, experiment and explore the only way we know

how – through falling in love and becoming lovers. All we know about love between adults is a sexual expression and that is what may be happening in your life right now. You experience a deep longing and a need to be engaged with your sexual energy.

 Because this experience of love vibration is very different and so much bigger then anything you’ve ever experienced before, it cannot be fully experienced within the paradigm of our traditional relationship structures based on obligations, old contracts and guilt. These routines are unsustainable because they are just coping mechanisms that allowed us to survive, but they did not feed our body, mind and spirit. As a powerful vibration of current energy moves through us, it creates an evolutionary impulse that cannot be stopped unless we restrain ourselves through traditional ways of holding our true nature tamed.

These coping strategies create a web of self-destruction by weakening our physical body through repression and denial, deteriorating our emotional system through shame and rejection, and devastating our relationships with patterns of guilt and separation.

Each of these strategies has a potential to mature when we are willing to look into and take responsibility for resolving our deep seeded longing for Love, unconditional acceptance and pure unselfish connection with our wild divine nature.

How to start your growing process?

We start by recognizing every unsatisfied emotional, physical and mental need that we repressed. Being transparent about your deeply hidden sadness, disappointment, and lost hopes, you move into clearly seeing your habits of self-denial. What are the true reasons for your hidden sadness, disappointment, and lost hopes? You stop blaming others for what you are experiencing, you take your attention off how THEY did not give you what you want and you make yourself available to yourself. This is an amazing opportunity to play a new game where you change your character into being resourceful, wise, and powerful force in your own life.

It is time to become 100% honest about your ability to stand on your own feet without leaning on anyone else. This will help you rapidly grow into your current age by letting go an idea that someone is, can or has to be your surrogate parent if you claim to be an adult.

You then look into what you repressed and denied yourself of and notice if you carry any shame around it (feeling something wrong with you, not being good enough, not fitting in). Shame is one of the first emotional patterns we experience as little kids. Our parents are rarely 100% aware that their parenting strategies that are repeatedly based on manipulating our behaviors by shaming. We feel unloved and rejected and we learn to criticize and shame ourselves and reject others before they reject us.

The truth of the matter is that you’ve never made a mistake in walking your evolutionary path. These unresolved issues and unfulfilled desires are there to move you, shake your world, give you an experience of contrast, and make you feel alive. The more you hide form yourself and your truth, the less alive you feel. Eventually your survival instinct kicks in to save the day. You explode, you allow, you experience what you were longing for and for a moment you feel one with your Soul.

You never fall in love with a person outside of yourself. When you like yourself when you are relating to something or someone outside of yourself, you simply fall in love with what resonates within. This recognition makes you breathe, smile and relax into being you. You fall in love with being free of repression, denial, shame, and rejection. And then you feel guilty… You feel like you betrayed someone that leans on you… Or someone you lean on. You feel you’ve separated from Divinity when, in fact, you just found your lost Divinity.

Journey into your untamed godly nature is an amazing journey. It is a passage of self permission, self sustainability and self admiration. It is a pathway into your Soul through allowing yourself to be 100% honest about your nature … first with yourself and then with those that are close to you. It is a journey of intimate connection with your body that leads to recognition and allowing of the human needs to be fulfilled while your energy is being focused on your Soul Journey.  It is an exploration through which you are finding your self-worth, let go of greed and learn to stay present to vibrations of love in every single moment.

How do you stay present?

There are many moments in our life that are passing by unnoticed. Focusing on how much pleasure you can experience in every breath, activity, conversation, touch, smell, and connection without the fear of how and what may or may not happen later is the key. It is about understanding and forgiving yourself for being human while understanding and forgiving others for playing along and being supportive actors in your human drama. It is about showing up in your life 100% and making decisions based on what supports you in your journey.

It is about finding ways to powerfully move your energy independently from what others may or may not offer in a moment through movement, breath, energy and body work. It is also about asking for what you want clearly and openly and allowing the energy of your desire to move freely through your material plane. Life never gives you something that you cannot handle. It only opens it treasure chest when you are big enough to invest your energetic currency into your universal Love bank. So, be curious, open and grateful for what is showing up in your life as a response and be adult enough to recognize the changes that are magical manifestations of desire to grow up happy.

Being honest and transparent with yourself... look into what is missing in your relationship, so you know exactly what you are looking for outside of it. Then, being completely clear and courageous, make a commitment to shift your relationship be a perfect match to your desire (in my coaching practice I work with couples to make it happen) or honestly accept your resignation if it is not possible. This will help you make decisions that support a new stage in your relationship while supporting your own growth.

Love is Love. Sex is just a part of what we, humans, call Love. An important part though. Our life force energy is generated and sustained via fully expressed sexuality, yet this is just one way of self-expression. When creative life force energy is not appreciated, recognized, acknowledged, and supported within relationship, sex seems to be the only way to get this energy moving. On the other hand, when someone really understands your creative genius and supports your creative growth, you fall in love with them and you find the way to express it.  

We create Love in many different ways... Sex is only one of them. Love is what we are looking for, the feeling of being at Home. We want feel love, to feel loved. This is the energy that creates kids, writes songs, builds cities and dances tango. We are made in the God's image and can it is our birthright to play with creative energy of Love, including human expressions and interpretations of it, making our drama on Earth worth our while.