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The Message Of Saying No
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Elleke Rocks

Elleke is specialized in the teens and children of today and is the creator and trainer of New Energy DNA Coaching. You can visit one of her workshops, trainings or personal sessions in Rosmalen, The Netherlands where she works and lives in her house in the forest. Don't be surprised when you see a squirrel or rabbit walking by when you visit her.


More information about her workshops, trainings and personal sessions:

http://www.newchildren.net English
http://www.nieuwekinderen.nl Dutch

Elleke wrote for the Spectrum Magazine from 2008 till 2011 sharing stories of love and empowerment.


When you want to connect with Elleke you can do so at info at nieuwekinderen dot nl 
or by visiting her website.

 
By Elleke Rocks
Published on 03/17/2011
 
No is the new yes

The toughest cookies to crack from the outside are the most loving, sweet and sensitive from the inside.

It's like a toddler who starts to define itself

It's like a toddler who feels he/she has got power

To create


It's giving value to your energy

It's protecting yourself

from the ones who take and take

It's living new energy

when you say no


No to all the input

No to leaking

No to poverty inside yourself


No to grumpy old men

No to ladies who gossip


No is saying yes to the divine in yourself.


And people may think that you are crazy.

They may tell you you are stubborn.

Unattached as if you have got bonding issues

They may leave you


They may get angry with you

Cause you say no.


No, no, no, no, no, no, no.


Magical words, like a magical blanket

That protects us from the outside.


It's like a song that brings us back to our core.

Once we landed and start to feel that energy inside ourselves

we can vibrate that safe space we all are longing for.


That is where the yes begins. The yes to the sun,

To the earth, to expanding life.

Yes to our body, yes to friends.

Yes to expression and sharing.


And you know when to say no.

You know when you feel like you have lost yourself.

You know how to say no cause you have discovered the yes

inside yourself.


Special exercise:

Imagine that there is a volcano in front of you.

Send all the unwanted energies you are experiencing

from yourself or others inside the volcano, into mother earth.

Fill your energy field with a golden flow from your crown

to your feet.

I do this exercise after I come home from work. It allows me to be me again.

I channeled this exercise recently after meeting a lot of new clients in one day.