Svetlana Pritzker   www.energy4action.com  www.matrixalchemy.com
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How often are you compelled to dress like others?
How much do you care what “they” think ?
Can you act spontaneously, follow your intuition or do things “your way” freely?

Making decisions that are right for you is not easy when you are considering other people feelings. Making decisions that involve others is one of the major challenges in building a successful Marriage Puzzle. Balancing relationships in your Parenting Puzzle with complications of building your Financial Puzzle may feel like unmanageable task.

Many of my so called “indecisive” clients complain that they have a hard time making every day decisions; leave alone decisions about serious life matters. They feel overwhelmed by conflicting thoughts and ideas coming from their friends and family and, fearing a conflict, become stuck in keeping the status quo.

What do you do when none of the choices offered by others feel right to you?
Do you feel frustrated?
Angry?
Disappointed?
Bitter?

Following the truth within requires some courage. But first, you need to be sure that what you are about to do is a right thing to do. How can you make this process easy and reliable?

Every one of us has a very precise way of knowing exactly what is right for us. This knowing is unique to your perception, energetic structure and your ability to connect with others in a way that supports your forming relationship. When you know how to access your own truth, you can make the most effective and beneficial decisions that resonate with you. According to your genetic type you may experience your truth through a strong gut response or via emotional feeling. The knowing can also come to you over time and you can develop an understanding by hearing yourself talk with others, yet without having a truth contained in your genetic code you can only guess your ideal decision making strategy.

In my previous article, I shared the common trends and energetic make up of 5 major human types and their unique roles in our collective human puzzle. Today I would like to help you understand your personal strategy to freedom of making decisions that are right for you. When you receive a session helping you embody your most successful tactic, you will experience a sense of peace, security and balance even though others may not approve or agree with you. Your inner resistance to take responsibility dissipates naturally when your decisions come from your own deep guidance.

According to the Law of Attraction, following your Genetic Type Strategy puts you at ease with yourself. It creates a special environment for manifestations that are true to you because they are based on your inner knowing and trust to yourself.

How often do you follow somebody else’s advice even though it feels off?
Can you imagine living without depending on anybody for knowing of what is correct for you?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you could be your own psychic?
What would you do if you would have a full permission and support to express dreams and desires without any shame, guilt or fear of rejection?

Surrender To Freedom
Manifestors do not need anybody’s energy to move forward. Their manifestations are fast and powerful and communication is not their strong point. They roar by. They move through life like a passing fighter jet whose pilot barely sees you down there, being self contained in their powerful movement.

If you are a Manifestor, you may feel like you are compelled to rebel against authorities in your life or conform to them. The past experiences of being controlled and restricted in your manifestations may give you a sense that informing people about your actions BEFORE you act may be dangerous and constricting.

The most important strategy for you, if you are a Manifestor, is to learn to communicate efficiently with others, informing them about where, how and when their energy is being applied. If this strategy is not implemented, your fast jet is destined to a head on collision with others members of your Human Puzzle.

The Only Thing You Need To Know If You Are A Manifestor is that whatever it is you want in life, just go after it. Just make sure that you include others at the same time by informing them about your actions first. If you exclude yourself, you will cut yourself off from the source of your power. Find your passion and release it!

If your spouse, your child or you are a Manifestor, you may want to examine the rules and regulations that are part of your life and relationships. Manifestors are only 8% of the human population. Each Manifestor meant to be a king, a high priest, a warrior who is destined to take control of their life manifestation.

Surrender to Now

If you are a Generator or a Manifesting Generator, you are part of about 70% of the human puzzle. You are gifted with your own forecaster right inside your sacral center. To let your gut feeling guide you means to allow your gut feeling, the center of your vitality, sensuality, sexuality and creative juice to feel the energy and respond to it naturally. This center speaks to with precise sensation of “Yes” or “No” that will direct you into experiences that are right for you.
Generators have a tendency to initiate things, relationships and changes in their live without waiting to respond to what life can naturally bring to them. In doing so they generate enormous frustration and may even feel depleted by the resistance they meet. If they are not fully committed to what they are doing because the action came from their mind and not from the gut response, they cannot generate an adequate energy to continue their task and simply give up or become enslaved by their own mind pressure.
If you feel that you are enslaved by the work or relationship that are unfulfilling, it is time for you to check in with your inner counselor , the gut feeling, and make sure your creation energy is pure and satisfying.
Manifesting Generators have a tendency to combine the frustrations of the pure Generators and the anger of restricted Manifestors. They are as fast as the Manifestors are, always try to initiate and manifest. When a Manifesting Generators meet resistance, they try to break through it again and again that often results in hurt and eventual illnesses. They experience irritation, impatience and aggressiveness in their life because they are not willing to wait and respond to their sacral “Yes” or “No”.
The only thing you need to know if you are a Generator or Manifesting Generator
Is that you need to stop thinking about what your life should look like or what you really want in life. Relax and allow life flow to bring relationships, events and ideas to your door. When you begin to respond to everything in your life as it comes to you, you will experience a creative explosion and a pulse that will continue to guide you beyond your mind limitations to the fulfillment of your dreams and creative destiny for the rest of your life.

Surrender to Faith

If you are a Projector, your best strategy for successful relationships is about getting people to INVITE you into partnerships in which you feel recognized for your contribution and acknowledged for your gifts that add the color to their creative energy.

You are a natural executive who is, when recognized and invited, can create significant contributions to make people’s life easier and more manageable. You may not have the energy for a consistent buzz, but you are good at studying where the energy is coming from and where does it go, so you are very good at accessing and managing the flow for others while you are helping yourself to stay in action. You are a master of creating symbiotic relationships similar to those we see in the nature.

Because you are not a Manifestor, you should be patient and accepting the fact that you cannot initiate without meeting resistance and become bitter and resentful to a compromise you end up with. You do not have a consistent access to “doing” energy.

The only thing you need to know if you are a Projector is that you have to stop trying to get people to recognize you. You need to trust yourself and be confident that when you would walk into a room full of people, you would be seen and invited to partake in their interactions. Believing in yourself is one of your major strategies. You aura will speak for you, conveying that you no longer need anything from anyone else, so people would want to experience this level of independence and self-trust. You are destined to attain recognition for doing what you love most. All you have to do is to wait for it to occur. It will, sooner or later!

Surrender to your Existence

If you are a Reflector, your best strategy for you is in letting life move through you. You are a pure REFLECTION of the energy around you. Because your life is all about reflection, you need to be still like the water in a pond, so your reflection is clear. If you are a Reflector who is in constant motion, you may feel like a dog chasing his tail, creating a vicious circle of closed circuit that is detrimental to your health and relationships.

The Reflectors are here to merge with the energy around them, to experience and reflect Oneness in mundane. You are a mirror reflecting the knowing that there is no pure separation or distinction in our connection with each other. Reflectors’ strategy is to embody their environment without really identifying with any particular part of it.  If you are a Reflector, you have to let the energy pass right through you without controlling it or being controlled.

The only thing you need to know if you are a Reflector is that the most important thing for you is to find the right place to live and work. When you are in the environment that is right for you, your life will fall in place and many doors will be opened. Making decisions is very hard for you and you need to allow yourself enough time to talk about it with people that you trust. You would need at least 1 month for serious decisions to form within while you just hear your own ideas. Space is the major component of your livelihood and you need to make sure it is clear of people that do not belong in your life. You also need at least 28 days to know from within whether you can trust a person or not.

Love, Sex and Secrets within your Marriage Puzzle

Falling in love with a Manifestor is like riding a tsunami of anger or love. Falling in love with a Generator is like finding a treasure chest with perpetual mobile. Falling in love with a Projector is like having your personal counselor at home. Falling in love a Reflector is like falling in love with yourself.

If you want to know more about your place in a Human Puzzle or need help in figuring out your Marriage Puzzle, send your comment to this article to Lana@energy4action.com or cal 847 414 3730 for your complimentary Human Puzzle introduction