Elleke is specialized in the teens and children of today and is the creator and trainer of New Energy DNA Coaching. You can visit one of her workshops, trainings or personal sessions in Rosmalen, The Netherlands where she works and lives in her house in the forest. Don't be surprised when you see a squirrel or rabbit walking by when you visit her.
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Elleke wrote for the Spectrum Magazine from 2008 till 2011 sharing stories of love and empowerment.
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Looking beyond limiting perceptions of what multidimensionality can be and a honest look to it's burdens and blessings in this article.
We have been introduced into a new concept called “ Multi dimensionality.” For some it's hard to grasp, for others is a natural phenomenon compared to breathing and gravity.
With that multi dimensionality is the new “cool thing” in the spiritual world. The fact that we have got different aspects of ourselves in different dimensions with which you can connect, share tools, experiences and stories with is so cool. Many people love to be “multi dimensional”, and are looking for people in their surroundings who represent this “multi dimensionality” to them. They are attracted to others who reflect the wholeness they are themselves.
Let's get honest here. Many people say that I am “very multidimensional”. Spiritual people love to just sit next to me cause I seem to radiate a multi dimensional space.
Lately I have been very angry with the “multidimensional” label. I feel it's used to adore something in me that I have used simply to survive life. I have got friends who are labeled with multiple personalities. They have got different aspects in themselves that seems to rotate. Have you ever thought about the fact that these aspects come in times of great profound trauma? That it's a survival thing? Of course we don't have to fill them with pills, and we even can say: “Wow what a wonderful thing that the human body works so well, that other aspects take over.” But WTF?? Do you think that my friend wouldn't rather have that all these aspects could communicate in their own way, in their own space? Don't you think my friend would be much happier when he could stay his human self in his human life and could take life in just as it is? A life in where breathing, working, doing the groceries, having friends would be much more satisfying then experience life as being shattered in thousand pieces? I don't want ANYONE to adore me. I don't want ANYONE to tell me I am “So multi dimensional.” You are too! You are the same.
I
dare to take a bet and say that 80 percent of the people that are
being labeled atm as “very multidimensional” have experienced
severe trauma in their early childhood. Our brain makes sure we
disassociate. We disconnect our body from our soul. And to simply
stay alive a small aspect of our soul takes over the control for that
moment.
I feel shattered in thousand pieces. My heart is the home base where I can invite all these pieces in. The separation that every piece experiences is heartbreaking. They couldn't connect with each other because of the pain. As soon as one aspect starts to feel more pain, discomfort or fear then it can handle another aspect starts to jump in. At the same time there is one control officer: The heart. Sometimes it's so difficult to feel our hearts. To totally open it and let all our aspects in. Cause we feel the pain, anger and separation we all have been through. Our brain sends information from our brain stem to the rest of our body. My body feels numb very often. It hasn't been until the last years I start to feel my body slowly more and more. After all it's a human life we live. To connect with my other aspects is so natural for me and a great escape from earthly life. For me the challenge is to live a stable life. In where transferring from one aspect to the other stops and in where I open my heart to welcome all the aspects in. With that it's like we welcome so many “children” in our heart. Our heart is like a big chamber in where all these aspects can be nurtured. With this reintegration a huge focused beam of love is being created. With that life becomes simple and creation extremely powerful. It's the magic wand we have been searching for to create what we want in an instant. Most of all I love it, that with the reintegration chaos, depression, fear, sadness and anger disappears. I want to be a simple girl loving earthly life. So next time you see me, just radiate some safe space so that my human aspect knows: I am safe.
It's my believe that in the future many healing modalities will be based on this multidimensional reintegration. But first the body has to feel safe. Without the safety that is being felt in the body, it's a dangerous game we are playing. And “insanity” is laying just around the corner. When the body isn't perceived as a safe beacon, our aspects can jump in and out without a “captain” that is controlling the vessel. Aspects of others easily can jump in our bodies without this “captain” that is called awareness. I have seen this a lot by clients and sensitive unaware co-workers in the psychiatric field where I worked as a motivation therapist for years. Multi dimensional healing is not for the fainthearted. It asks for a lot of courage and for a lot of healers who know what they are doing. The fact that we can heal easily and don't have to go through endless processes doesn't mean we can let go of our integrity and focus. The facilitator has to be out of fear for the multidimensionality first and first makes sure the body of the client is feeling safe. And that is a process that can be done easily, but may take some time. Luckily we have all the time of the world.
With love,
Elleke